Tools for Talking
Talking About Hard Subjects: Using an Indirect Approach
Whether talking to your child about Big Feelings or about difficult subjects, it’s sometimes best to take an indirect approach. Here’s how.
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Talking with kids is a key way to help them with their struggles and emotions. But it’s not always obvious how to talk to young children about their feelings, especially intense, conflicting ones. Sometimes, talking doesn’t even work and we need to find other ways to help kids get in touch with their feelings.
This is what play therapy is all about, and parents can borrow from these techniques to help kids handle their feelings better. In the end, when a child’s emotions are brought into the open, their challenging behaviors improve.
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Tool for Talking
Talking with kids is a key way to help them with their struggles and emotions. But it’s not always obvious how to talk to young children about their feelings, especially intense, conflicting ones. Sometimes, talking doesn’t even work and we need to find other ways to help kids get in touch with their feelings.
This is what play therapy is all about, and parents can borrow from these techniques to help kids handle their feelings better. In the end, when a child’s emotions are brought into the open, their challenging behaviors improve.

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