Tools for Understanding
An Overlooked Tool to Understanding Kids: Their Exaggerated Behaviors
Kids hide their emotions by acting the opposite to how they feel, a sign that they have very strong, unwanted feelings they need help with.
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Being small in such a large, overwhelming world hugely affects how young kids feel. Developmentally, they also can’t understand how things works, not just because they lack experience, but because their thinking is naturally limited.
When parents fully understand how a child experiences and views the world—often in somewhat warped and inaccurate ways—parents can more fully help their child with whatever struggles come up.
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A Key Technique Therapists Use to Figure Out Kids
Figuring out kids is rarely easy or obvious. Child therapists have a helpful technique which anyone can (and should!) use.
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These 3 Defense Mechanisms Can Explain Your Kid’s Behavior
Here’s 3 defense mechanisms that kids commonly use, and which will help parents explain their child’s behavior.
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A Key Technique Therapists Use to Figure Out Children
Figuring out what kids feel and why is rarely easy or obvious. Child therapists have a helpful technique anyone can (and should!) use.
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Drawing Out the Story
Drawing with your child is an excellent way to better understand what’s going on inside your kid. Therapists often use this tool, and so can you.
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How to Make Sense of Your Child’s Behavior: Some Examples
Your child is trying to tell you something through his behavior, but what exactly? Here are some examples of difficult and wacky behaviors, and how we can make sense of them.
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How to Make Sense of Deceitful Behavior: Some Examples
A child’s deceitful behavior often stems from the child’s feelings. Here’s what to do and how to make sense of various behaviors.
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Though a young child’s behavior can be strange, confusing, and often challenging, it does make sense in a little-kid-brain way. To help your child, you have to understand what’s driving his behavior; these posts give you the tools to do just that.
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